Whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you. Matthew 6:6
When I was younger, I went through a phase where I tried to impress people with my piety. Then I read theologian Paul Tillich’s admonitions against “religiosity“.
I realized that my faith is for me. I don’t need to hide it, but I don’t want to flaunt it either. There is a difference between being openly faithful and practicing faith in front of others to draw attention to oneself.
True faith first looks inward. Praying with one eye open to see if those around you are watching you pray is self-aggrandizement.
The vast majority of people don’t give a rat’s patootie about how pious you are. Of the very few who care, half are distainful of displays of piety. The other half think they are in a competition to see who is the most virtuous and they believe they are winning. These people look down on others for their lack of piety.
There is power and insight to be found in quiet, personal, inner faith.
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I couldn’t agree with you more on this point, Laurie. When it comes to faith, “show, don’t tell” should apply.
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My feelings exactly, Jan.
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You have great insight. I laugh now when I remember trying to impress our minister by memorizing the Apostle’s Creed when I was a pre-teen.
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Thank you, Anne. We had to memorize the Apostle’s Creed as part of our catechism. I think I could still say it from memory – we say it most weeks in church!
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We use both the Apostle’s Creed and the Nicene Creed, so you have to be alert or you’ll mess everybody up.
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Haha! Actually, we do too!
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Very true Laurie.
Bless you,
Jennifer
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Thank you, Jennifer. Blessings to you, too.
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“These people look down on others for their lack of piety.” This is a sentiment I experience frequently. It doesn’t strike me as very Christian behavior.
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Me either, Jeff. I think, unfortunately, a lot of people share your sentiment.
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I love your closing line: “There is power and insight to be found in quiet, personal, inner faith.” I agree!
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Thank you so much. I need to remind myself of this often!
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True. Prayer is the connection not the admirers
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Yes, absolutely!
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I agree – there is more value in private spirituality than public fuss on the matter 🙂
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Exactly! It is meant to be private.
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Yup, there’s so much Goodwin Jesus’s admonitions about practicing our righteousness for his eyes only.
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“Goodness “
Drat autocorrect!
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So true!
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Oh I agree with this whole heartedly, faith is personal, it’s certainly not a competition. x
#abitofeverything
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Yes, exactly – it’s not a competition!
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Since you can’t really “impress” the One you’re praying to, there isn’t much point trying to impress anyone else.
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So true, Dan! I never thought of it that way, but I like your take on the topic!
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Very true.
However the religion is a difficult and long topic.
In the past I was catholic, now I am only christian and every prayer is only between me and God. I think that I don’t need an intermediary (the priest) to reach the “heaven” if I am a “good person”.
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I agree – prayer is between you and God only. No intermediary is needed.
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I always love to read your take on things! Have a great rest of your week
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Thank you! You have a good week too.
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This is a great way to put it, Laurie: “I don’t need to hide it, but I don’t want to flaunt it either.”
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Thank you, Lisa.
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Its all about Him and our connection with Him.
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Yes, that connection is so important!
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Lovely Laurie thank you … am taking it to heart 🙂
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Thank you, Susan!
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Amen, I agree! 🙂
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Thank you, Shelley!
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Hello, I have always been a private person. I do believe everyone is entitled to believe in their own religion, how they pray is up to them. I wish you a good day and a happy weekend.
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I believe the same thing, Eileen. There are as many ways to find God as there are people.
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You have such a great perspective on the topic and penned a very thought provoking post (oh goodness, I just reread that sentence and it sounds just like the spam comments I get and decided to leave it here to give you a smile). My relationship with God is personal, and if I’m more concerned about making sure everyone is aware of it, I think I’m missing the point.
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Haha! It DOES sound like spam! Thanks for pointing that out! 🙂 And thanks for the comment.
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Very good post! I am a prayer…for sure! I know I couldn’t do the things I do without help.
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Thank you! I pray a lot too!
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…no piety for me, I just go out every day and try my best!
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That’s a great way to live your life!
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Very well said! I couldnt agree more!
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Thank you!
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Amen, amen, amen!
x Anastasia | MightyMemos.com
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Thank you!
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“True faith looks inward.” Fresh insight here, Laurie. We often think to look like true sold-out followers of Christ, faith has to “look” big and flaunted. But when we read Hebrews 11, the Hall of Faith, none of the people commended for their faith tried to overdo it in front of others.
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I just went back and read Hebrews 11. What a wonderful observation. I love your name for it “The Hall of Faith”!
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“True faith looks inward.” I like that. I might have said upward, but I totally get what you mean. It’s about us and Jesus, not how the world sees us.
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Upward is a good direction to look also!
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For sure! I love how we can all learn from one another on this faith journey!
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Yes! So true. We have a wonderful community.
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As I child, I was taught to pray with my eyes closed. The idea was to prevent me from getting distracted, but my biggest temptation was looking at everyone else in the room to see how they were praying. (I wanted to make sure no one else was peeking. Ha ha!) 🙂 In our humanity, we are constantly battling comparison. Thanks for this great reminder!
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I can remember doing the same thing as a child! 🙂 Comparison is something I must battle. Thanks for your comment!
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I did the same as a child. I think I can still fight “looking around to see who’s looking” in my old age. I’ve begun praying more and more: Lord for your eyes and heart only may I live and love. He’s very patient. (:
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Thank goodness God is patient with all of us! Comparison is something I must watch out for!
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These are very wise words Laurie – it is like the Shakespeare expression “The lady doth protest too much, methinks” – it is sometimes better to just keep it to yourself for anything.
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Thank you, Linda. I find I sometimes struggle with comparison to others. It’s one thing (of many) I’m working on as I get older! 🙂
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I’m still working on a few things too as I get older Laurie. So, query, when are we going to be totally satisfied with the finished product – I ask since you and I are the same age. 🙂
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I don’t think there will ever be a time when I can say “OK. I’m THERE!” When I stop learning and growing, life would get pretty dull, I think! 🙂
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That is a good attitude to take Laurie.
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Man, I love this!!!
Thanks for linking up @LiveLifeWell!
Blessings,
Amy
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Thank you, Amy!
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Ive often found that people who actively show off their devotion to their religion are actually the ones who tend not to really understand the lessons of love and acceptance that all religions share.
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Yes, so true. Religion should not be a competition to see who is holiest!
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Interesting read thanks for sharing
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Thanks!
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