“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward.” Amelia Earhart
Having the courage to take the first step is the hard part. It doesn’t matter whether the endeavor is running, knitting, juggling, or writing. Putting yourself out there, opening yourself up for possible failure takes audacity. The most difficult part is writing those first shaky words, casting on that first stitch, tossing that first ball, taking that first tentative step.
Even if you don’t get “there“, wherever “there” is, the process is the reward. You can’t always control the outcomes, but you can control what you put into the activity.
Maybe you don’t write a book, but you write a blog, which allows you to express yourself, create something worthwhile, and make a lot of diverse friends from all over the world.
Maybe you don’t run a 100-miler or even a marathon, but you begin moving, feeling strong. You get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. You learn how to push your limits, then find new limits and push them too.
It’s the process that changes you; it’s the process that makes you a better person, stronger, smarter, more interesting, daring.
What process will change you today?
“For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light.” Ephesians 5:8
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Ok. Did you write this for me? Lol.
My first marathon ever. Nov. 3
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I DID write this for you! And for me too! 🙂 You are gonna slay that marathon!
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Maybe not slay but survive
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Needed to read this today, thank you! ❤
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So glad it spoke to you!
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Thank you ❤
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Oh, Laurie. How I love your words here. The reward is in the process. Yes!
I resonated with this: “It’s the process that changes you; it’s the process that makes you a better person, stronger, smarter, more interesting, daring.”
I have discovered that until I determine in my mind that I’m going to act/change something, nothing will change. Thanks for this reminder. I needed it!
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Thank you, Jeanne. Yes, once we make up our minds, we can be unstoppable!
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Interesting and wise post. I like this quote: “You learn how to push your limits, then find new limits and push them too” and I think that the “new limits” are not only the more challenging ones but also to be able to adapt our body (and mind) to the current situation day by day.
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Thank you! I agree we do find better, more suitable ways to challenge ourselves as we get older. Great comment!
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I can’t agree more..the process is indeed part of the important transformation that we have to go through
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Thank you, Indah!
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I agree – it’s the process that makes the change fun for me. Thank you for sharing the thought-provoking post! Happy Wednesday to you!
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Thank you, Shelley. I sometimes need reminding to focus on the process, not the outcome. I tend to be “results-oriented”! 😀 Happy Thursday!
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You’re welcome. I think we all need to do that, it keeps our brains engaged and healthy too! Happy Friday to you!
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This is a really important point. Thanks for reminding us that doing something is a good thing.
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What a great way to put it, Dan – DOING something is good! Love it!
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I love the process of prayer journaling, Laurie. It always takes me down a path that I desperately need to run down–much like you on that path above. Kudos to you for staying strong and active. I’ve got a bum knee, so the only way I can get close to that is by walking on my treadmill and at the park when I can. Have a great week!
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Journaling (maybe prayer journaling) is high on my list of things I want to try. I think your comment may be the nudge I need to begin in July. Thank you!
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I actually started learning Spanish, with an app! Might as well make good use of the train while commuting! Great post. #abitofeverything xoxo
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I began learning Spanish last year with an app also – Duolingo. I used it before our trip to Costa Rica, but, sadly, I haven’t kept up with it since. Thank you!
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That first step is indeed such a scary one. But after that, it often does get easier. “Just show up” has been my theme the past several years and it has served me well to get through the fear. Great post, Laurie!
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“Just show up” is the perfect way to start. I have had to say something like that often when I am afraid of trying new things. Thank you, Lisa.
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There is no there there. 🙂 A line I learned from Shauna Niequist Present over Perfect bible study. The process can be hard, but it’s through the battling that victory is won!
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Very true. We need to be committed to the struggle! 🙂
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I love the quote up top by Amelia Earhart and I really need to push myself more to get other things accomplished … things that I should set my mind to and follow through. I feel like I’ve become too complacent with setting goals and getting them accomplished. Thanks for giving me a nudge and the inspiration. A new month next week … maybe the second half of the year is a time for beginning something new. I am sad to think that the Summer Solstice has passed and we now begin the slow crawl to Winter – ugh!
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Thank you, Linda. I have found so many great quotes by Amelia. She was one of my heroines when I was growing up. I feel the same way about passing the Summer Solstice. The longest day has to be one of my favorite ones. I love how it stays light so late in the evening!
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Back when Robb and I were still at the Firm, I did a daily quote and I would send it out every morning to everyone. I started doing that long before we were on Windows and connected to the internet, because our computers were “dummy terminals” – we only had an intranet and no tie to the outside world. When they hooked up our “Pine” brand e-mail, the I,T. guy asked me, since I always got there early due to taking the bus, to send a message to everyone to try out the new e-mail system. So I had a quote-a-day calendar and picked a quote and sent it out – the e-mail worked and co-workers wrote back “I like it – do one tomorrow” and that began a new tradition … I got graphics and other photos to jazz up my quote as well. It continued even after Y2K when we finally went to Windows and had Microsoft Outlook. I liked Mother Teresa and Eleanor Roosevelt for lots of my quotes too. Unfortunately it’s all downhill from here toward that awful season – Winter.
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I like Mother Theresa and Eleanor Roosevelt for quotes too. You were writing the precursor to your blog when you were sending out your quote of the day over 20 years ago! 🙂
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Yes, I often used their quotations as they resonated with me. I didn’t realize that at the time that all these years later I’d be blogging and do something similar. My mom was a tea drinker and I often used the little words of wisdom that came on the tea tags … Teabag Teatag Wisdom was what I called it.
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Now the same kinds of bits of wisdom are inside the lids of Snapple!
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Really? That is interesting – I’ve never had Snapple before. I used to like those sayings – they reminded me of fortune cookies.
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Man oh man, how I needed this little push of a reminder to know that every step forward is a step regardless of the distance 🙂
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Glad you could use it. I need those reminders too! 🙂
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Very good points! Getting started is most usually the hard part for me 🙂
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I slipped those knitting references in there just for you! 🙂
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I appreciate that! 🙂
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I was fortunate enough to have a trainer early on that convinced me that I could do anything I set my mind to. It’s interesting to look back and see that God put the right people in my life at the right time.
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Your trainer sounds wonderful! Exactly the type of trainer you want in your corner.
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I’m still searching for that way to truly express myself. I let off a little steam blogging, and a whole lot daydreaming 😉
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I think that is something most bloggers struggle with. You’re not in it alone! 🙂
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Heard someone else saying pretty much saying the same thing, in a completely different context, that the first step is the hardest, but all other steps follow it! Once you get going, things usually fall into place. #WotW
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Exactly. That’s what usually happens when I am writing. It takes me a while to get going, but once I start, my fingers usually can’t type fast enough to keep up!
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Such wise word Laurie, I have so much that I want to achieve but still find it difficult to start. If I could only begin the process, then succeeding would not be paramount but I would be willing to keep pushing forward. Thanks for linking up to #wotw
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So true. When I am writing, I find that I have trouble typing the first sentence. When I get started, my thoughts come so fast, my fingers can’t type fast enough to keep up. It’s just the beginning that is difficult. Thanks for the opportunity to link! 🙂
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Dear Laurie, your exhortation dovetails so well with Debbie’s message this week. Sometimes the first step after we’ve been disillusioned can seem insurmountable. Praise God, He’s in our corner encouraging us through Sisters in Christ like you to “just do it!’
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So true, Alice. I never thought about that as I read Debbie’s post. The first step is usually the toughest. God is with us, encouraging us always, but it is nice to have the earthly “Sisters in Christ” as you say!
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What a lovely piece Laurie, you are exactly right the difficult part is getting started. I’m in the process of making lots of small changes, taking the first steps has definitely not been easy.
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Thank you, Angela. Taking lots of first steps sounds intimidating. Good luck with your small changes. They can add up to big results!
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I learn a lot on the journey/process of any project I do. I’ve always enjoyed it more than finishing. I’m concentrating on improving what I do, at the moment, and not picking up anything new. I’m so easily distracted. #wotw
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Yes, I can imagine for your crafting projects the process is the important part. Your results are so lovely too, though!
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Lovely post with some wonderful advice!
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Thank you, Betty!
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Wise words so true about the first step can be the hardest X #wotw
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Thank you, Sam!
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Excellent! I feel so sorry for those who won’t try something in which they have genuine interest for fear of failure.
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Yes, so true. Fear of failure holds so many back from realizing their dreams!
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With my crochet designing I always find deciding where to start is the most difficult step.
#abitofeverything
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Yes, I can imagine. Once you get going on a project, it becomes easier. Those first stitches are the toughest!
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I totally agree its about those first steps, I never forget the fear of publishing my first ever blog post, but its the best thing I have ever done x
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Yes, I can identify with that. Fortunately, only family members read my blog at first. By the time I got non-family followers, I was beginning to find my voice a little bit.
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I totally agree its about those first steps, I never forget the fear of publishing my first ever blog post, but its the best thing I have ever done x
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[…] The Process is Its Own Reward […]
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Lovely post Laurie, I would have missed it if not for Rory’s re’post, it speaks so true.
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BY FOR NOW
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Thank you, Dawn. so good to hear from you!
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LOVE this Laurie. Yep, get moving – it’s all about that first step. 💖
Thanks for sharing with #pocolo
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Yes, taking that first step is always the toughest part. Thanks for giving us the chance to share! 🙂
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I love this – such a good reminder that the process is important in itself and those first steps are so very important, and so hard to take sometimes. #WotW
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Thank you, Louise. The first steps are indeed the toughest. Have a good Wednesday!
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Oh my gosh! I love this and you are so right! It is that first step that is the hardest!!! Beautifully said!
Thanks for linking up @LiveLifeWell!
Blessings,
Amy
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Thank you, Amy. Have a wonderful 4th!
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Starting anything is always a good experience, but I find I don’t have the staying power to follow things through to the end
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When you find something that is right for you, you will be able to stick it out! 🙂
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