There is a small, nameless creek flowing through the meadow below my house that my grandsons love to visit. We sometimes spend hours wading there, exploring, and throwing stones into the clear water.
When you are four years old, it is difficult to be bored. Small activities give you great pleasure. As adults, we need more. More activity, more busyness, more stimulation. It is good, peaceful, to spend the afternoon with a four-year-old and take the time to slow down.
My mind sometimes wanders as the four-year-old throws stones into the creek. I am usually the gatherer of the stones and he is the thrower. I select the stones indiscriminately. Some are polished and shiny, some dull and lumpy, depending on the location of their origin and how long they have been tumbled by the water.
Words are like stones, I think. They come in all shapes and sizes, some are beautiful and some are plain, and they have a myriad of uses.
Words can wound if they are aimed and thrown, just like stones. They can cause scars and bruises when used as weapons. Words, like stones, can be used to build a wall. The wall can be protective, keeping out the unwanted, or they can build a prison, trapping us inside.
Stones and words both can be used to represent beauty. They can be gemstones, luminous and brilliant. Words can be coveted like treasure or used to inspire. They can have healing powers, they can be strong, immutable.
Today, November 4, is Peace Day. Let us use our powerful words in the cause of peace. The title of this blog “Dona Nobis Pacem” translates to “Grant Us Peace“. This can mean peace as an individual through prayer, meditation or other means, or it can mean world peace, as in the absence of war.
As of August 5, 2018, there have been 3,458 coalition deaths in the war in Afghanistan, according to Wikipedia, about two-thirds of them American. Over 100,000 Afghans have died as a result of the war. Approximately 14,000 American troops are located there still, as they have been for the past 17 years. Despite this presence, the Taliban operates openly in over 70% of the country.
For the past three years, there has been a war in Yemen, the poorest country in the Arab world, between Houthi rebels and the Yemeni government. The organization Save the Children estimates that over 50,000 Yemeni children have died this year as a result of the war, and over three million citizens have been displaced. The U.S. has provided weapons, ground troops, and support to the Saudi-led coalition fighting the rebels.
In Syria, the government of Bashar al-Assad is fighting against various opposition groups with shifting and confusing alliances. Russia, Iran, and Hezbollah support the Syrian government. Turkey supports some opposition groups. The U.S.-led coalition has conducted airstrikes in Syria with the declared intent of countering ISIS and has also bombed government and pro-government forces.
All of the parties listed above (including the U.S.) have been accused of human rights violations and massacres. Total deaths are difficult to ascertain, but most sources put the number at somewhere close to half a million people. The war has also sparked a refugee crisis of huge proportions, with people, understandably striving to shield their families from destruction, fleeing the country. It is estimated that at least five million refugees (maybe as many as seven million) have resulted from this war.
We must pursue peace. What can we do? Here are some suggestions:
- First and foremost, we must each make a personal commitment to non-violence ourselves.
- We must reject discrimination and prejudice in all forms.
- Volunteer either with a religious organization (such as The Interfaith Center for Sustainable Development or the American Friends Service Committee) or community organization (such as the Alliance for Peacebuilding or the Enough Project).
- Look people in the eye and say “Hello” when you pass them (one of my personal favorites).
- As Thich Nhat Hanh says “We must be ‘lovingly honest’; we must discipline ourselves to speak in a manner that conveys respect, gentleness, and humility“.
- Attend a meditation or conflict resolution training.
- Write a blog about promoting peace. Follow this link to participate.
- Post on social media promoting peace. You can do that here on Facebook or here on Twitter.
- Believe there is good in the world, then begin seeking peace and pursuing it.
I am linking with Just a Second for Scripture and a Snapshot, Peabea Photography for Sunday Scripture Blessings, Anita Ojeda for Inspire Me Monday, Clean Eats Fast Feets for her Week in Review, Shank You Very Much for Global Blogging, Random-osity for The Good, The Random, The Fun, Mary-andering Creatively for LMM, blovedboston for Weekending, Purposeful Faith for RaRa link up, Abounding Grace for Gracefull Tuesday, Char at Trekking Thru, Shelbee on the Edge for Spread the Kindness, Meghan Weyerbacher for Tea and Word, Mary Geisen Tell His Story, and A Spirit of Simplicity for Selah.
Beautiful post, a lot covered. I love your stone & word analogy and think it’s often the case that the bruise from a stone can heal a lot faster than from our words.
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Thank you for your kind comment. So true, bruises from stones heal faster than bruises from words!
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I love this one and I love the fact we’re saying such similar things this year. peace blessings!
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Thank you, Michelle. Going over to read yours right now!
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I love that verse. Turn from evil and do good, Seek peace. Those are action words…verbs. Peace is not passive. We must seek it and create it.
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Oh, so true. We must all do our part!
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Welcome to the Blog4Peace family! Wonderful entry.
Peace to you! ☮️
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Thank you so much for your very kind comment. I am so happy I found your wonderful group!
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Such beautiful thoughts. One day our weapons will be beat into plow shears…
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Thank you, Anita. We should follow the example of my Amish neighbors!
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This is so good!
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Thank you!
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A wonderful post. It is key to believe there is good in the world and in people. We see how everyone comes together in times of crisis. We see the best in humans then. I love your suggestion to greet people. In my village, we do that. In cities, people need that friendliness.
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I agree with your last sentence 100%. I live in a small town. Most people will say hello to you as they pass you on a bike path or even a sidewalk. They will at least smile and acknowledge your presence. When I run in a big city like Denver or Pittsburgh, I get very few greetings or acknowledgments. I guess it must be a big city thing!
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Oh so true on little ones with rocks. I miss those days with my little ones and even the grandson. Each in our every day life usually has no war going on with people around us and is hard to fathom all the stones being thrown, but they are. Long as I live, I will never really understand the whys of it. Spread the Peace is a great reminder post; especially the way American has been going lately with unrest and violent acts. Thank you for the links for ways to be better at it. When young, everyone smiled when passing by. Not so much today. Not sure why. Just yesterday when out shopping, our eyes met and I smiled, but the gentleman looked right pass me. Some even avert eye contact, which is sad. It is hard to not make the smile form when approaching someone, and has always been for me. I like your say hello so I need to do that more. Maybe had he heard my voice, he would have responded with a smile.
Have a great Sunday and week ahead.
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It’s sad when throwing rocks in the water no longer amuses little guys! Even my 7-year-old grandson has outgrown it. Thank goodness I still have 2 left who like to do it. You have a great rest of your Sunday and week, too!
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What a poignant yet powerful post. The statistics are staggering. So freaking sad…Dispair!
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Thank you, Rakkelle. We have the power to make a change. Right now. You and I! Don’t despair!
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A very important post, Laurie! Thank you!
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Thank you, Anita. So good to hear from you!
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We do need to seek and work for peace right in our own sphere of influence. Every little things helps as we reach out to people and they reach out to others. May God give us wisdom and grant us peace! Blessings to you! I’m your neighbor at #InspireMeMonday.
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Yes, exactly. If we all make small contributions towards peace, it adds up to a lot! Blessings to you, too, Gayl.
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Interesting observations about stones being used for good or for harm. What a powerful message! May we always pray for and actively pursue peace.
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Yes. We all must pray for and pursue peace. I agree completely!
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Great meditative post — words to think about during my Yoga workout (the first part about the stones). The second part is so sad. Sometimes it does seem like there is little we can do, but if everyone did their ‘little bit’ …..
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Exactly right, if everyone did just a little bit, cumulatively it would be a lot!
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What a beautiful and meaningful post Laurie. The world needs more peace, not just at the holiday time when most everyone is brimming over in joy – it needs it to start happening today.
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Thank you, Linda. I will be keeping it in mind tomorrow when I go to vote!
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I can’t vote because I am a Canadian citizen, but I am keeping my fingers crossed for the outcome. I will be grateful the election ads will be done!
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Amen! Grant us peace, Lord Jesus, and help us do our part. Thanks for sharing, Laurie. Blessings to you.
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Thank you, Boma. If we each do just a little, it will add up to a lot! Blessings!
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Thank you. Thank you for this.
“Believe there is good in the world, then begin seeking peace and pursuing it.” I needed to read this.
And I love your writing about stones and words ❤
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The women in my running club ordered T-shirts that have a peace sign and a world, with the words “Believe there is good in the world.” I love my running club! 🙂 Thank you for your kind comment!
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Peace. ☮️
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Thank you. Peace to you too!
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Amen and amen. Those stats sober and sadden me. We sing about peace on earth this time of year, but we often fail to practice peace year-round. Thank you for the reminder!
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Absolutely! Peace begins with each one of us.
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It is sad to listen to all the shouting and ugliness today. I have to remind myself that God is still in control, no matter how it looks. And ultimately, Peace is a person. Without a relationship with Jesus Christ, there will never be peace in our hearts.
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Oh, yes! Peace is a person. I love that! Thank you, Donna.
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The first weapon of war is words. I am always encouraging people to weight carefully what they speak and what they write. Thank you for this beautiful post. Peace.
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Yes, so right. War begins with words. Thank you for your kind comment! 🙂
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Powerful message, Laurie! Praying that my words would be a blessing to all I speak to today. We can make a difference in our little corner of the world if we let God place His words in our mouths.
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Yes, so true. Listening for God’s voice and allowing Him to speak through us is the way to peace! Thank you, Joanne.
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This is so good, and the Colossians 3 verse resonates for this season of the year in which thankfulness is often on our lips, but we forget the connection between gratitude and peace.
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Yes, thankfulness and peace do go together. Thank you for pointing out the connection.
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I love the link you make between stones and words. And yes, let’s use our words to bring peace- they have so much power to build up and encourage when often they can be used to tear down.
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Thank you, Lesley. If we all work towards achieving peace, just a little bit at a time, we can have a big impact! 🙂
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Love the visual of words like stones. So peaceful 🙂
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Thank you!
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Beautiful analogy, words and stones. And oh, to be 4! xoxo #globalblogging
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Thank you, Lisa. The next best thing to being 4 is to get to hang out with a 4-year-old! 🙂
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Words are so powerful and we have a huge responsibility to use them kindly and wisely. Thanks for linking up with #globalblogging
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Yes, I absolutely agree. Thank you for the opportunity to link.
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There is entirely too much violence going on in the world and most starts with harsh words that enbolden those who are mentally ill, or hateful and it needs to stop. Your words are inspiring. #GlobalBlogging
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Yes, I absolutely agree. We must choose our words carefully, be kind and strive for peace always. Thank you!
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Thanks for sharing your inspiring post on the #LMMLInkup this past week. I agree it is so important that we pray for and pursue peace.
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Thank you so much for the opportunity to share, Mary. You have some wonderful bloggers in your link up!
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Great Post Laurie! I love the written Word.
You have given me much to think on. 🙂
love(wbut)
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Thank you so much for yiour very kind comment. I love the written Word, too! 🙂
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Laurie – I am here discovering your beautiful blog and powerful words for Blog4Peace day in 2018. I needed to read those verses on the peace globes at this very moment (!) and I thank you for that.
Welcome to the Peace Globe Movement. I will place your peace globes in the Official Gallery at blog4peace.com as well as add this link to my blog. Please join us NOV 4, 2019 for another day of sharing peace and love in the Blogosphere. This is an outstanding post and one I won’t soon forget.
Peace to you and yours,
Mimi Lenox
Founder, Blog4Peace
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Thank you for your very kind comment, Mimi. Thanks also for organizing the Peace Globe movement. What a worthwhile community! I am so glad I found it. I will definitely join again this year.
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I know I am verry late but the past year has been hard on me and my wife.Dona Nobis Pacem!
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I am hoping this year will be more kind to you. Peace!
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