I am up to my neck in marathon training. Oh, I have vowed that I would never do another marathon many times, usually immediately following each marathon. I really do enjoy trail races more than road races these days. I love the laid-back atmosphere, the bounty at each aid station, the mud, and the wacky, never-say-die attitude of trail racers. And yet…here I am, training for another road marathon.
I did my requisite long run today. My first really long one. I don’t run with music anymore. There are a few reasons for that – I want to be aware of my surroundings and my interior conversation is usually amusing enough to keep me entertained. I was running on a bike path to avoid traffic and thinking about the political situation in our country. Ugh! When that got too depressing, I asked myself a question I care deeply about: What does it mean to be holy?
The answer to the question seems to depend on whether you research the Hebrew word for holy, qadash, or the Greek word, hagios. Qadash means “set apart“, as when we set aside land for a cemetery, it is sanctified, consecrated. Hagios refers to something that is pure and faultless. To combine these two definitions, we could say that if something is holy, it is pure and set apart from the commonplace.
Marilynne Robinson, the author of Gilead, says “Love is holy because it is like grace–the worthiness of its object is never really what matters.” Yes, love is holy.
This is not the Hollywood, running-on-the-beach breathless kind of love. This is the kind of love described in 1 Corinthians, patient and kind, not envious, boastful or proud. This is the kind of love where you let your loved one (wife) have the last toasted coconut brownie because it will make you happier to see him/her (her) eat it than to eat it yourself. (Totally fictitious example!)
When I was a young girl, I went on a cruise with my family. I loved to stand at the rail on the deck of the ship and watch the vast sea slide by. The thought occurred to me that if I should fall off the boat, no one would ever be able to find me in the immensity of the ocean. I innocently asked my father what he would do if I should fall overboard. Without hesitation, he responded, “I would jump in after you.” I think that was the first time I ever got an inkling of how strong, pure and holy a parent’s love is. I was amazed that my father would unquestioningly put himself at such peril for me. (Although, when I pictured the scenario, he did grab a life preserver for each of us as he jumped after me.)
I may question whether I am worthy of such love. What did I ever do to deserve this incredible blessing? But, as Ms. Robinson writes, worthiness is beside the point. I did nothing to deserve grace, either, and yet, for some mysterious, unknowable and happy reason, it is mine. Love and grace are both set apart, holy and pure.
This improbable, but eminently real, moment is holy. Time is what we are given. Time and love; it is all that we are given and it is more than enough, abundantly so. All of our needs are met, but not necessarily in the way we expect. Christ told his followers “I do not give to you as the world gives.”
If time is what we are given, use the gift. Spend your time. Live your life. Drink the wine, kiss the babies, eat the cake, make some whoopee. It would be disrespectful not to. This moment is holy.
Here is the thing about trail running – when I run on trails, I never run alone, so my interior monologue does not flow freely. As my running buddies will tell you, I am a talker. If I need to concentrate on my footing and do not talk, my thoughts tend to be something like “OK, put your left foot beside the rock…now lift your right foot over the root…avoid the puddle or plow right…alright, plow right through…oooh what kind of bird do I hear calling?” It’s a stream of consciousness babble. I am not thinking about important things, like holiness. For that alone, marathon training with its attendant long runs is worth it. Maybe I will sign up for another one.
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Good luck – keep strong and believe
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…I’ll skip the wine and have the cake.
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Cake is good!
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I’m marathon training too! Which are you training for?
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I have 2 coming up – The Tunnel of Light in Washington state in August and Marine Corps in October. How about you?
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Chicago!
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I LOVED the Chicago marathon! Have fun!!!
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Loved every word of this post–and I’m glad you don’t have music playing when you run, especially if you are on the road. Those twisty Pennsylvania roads look treacherous for pedestrians.
And that Marilynne Robinson quote is just lovely. I’m reminded to be thankful for the love (and grace) of God and so many others who love me even though I don’t deserve it!
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Thank you, Michele. I try to avoid roads with little or no shoulder, but some country roads are treacherous – especially with the event of cell phones!
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Good luck on your marathon!
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Thank you!
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Yes I feel the same way about the trails and trail races!!! Love it. Love that quote too. Now I want cake. 🙂
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I think you should have some cake! 🙂
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I do not drink but I love my cake! Good luck on the marathon! I ran one in 2014 and finished! I will never do another – only unlike you I mean it! I honestly thought I was going to die those last two miles! Cherish every moment…thanks for the reminder! I am now following you – you can follow back if you wish at Annster’s Domain
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Cake is good! Thank you for the good wishes. My experience with a marathon is: never say never, but maybe you are stronger than I and will resist the temptation to sign up for another one. I followed you!
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“Holiness is the bridge that links the two.” That is a thought I want to keep in a pocket over my heart. If it takes running a marathon for you to come up with such inspiration, then I say keep on training. Meanwhile I will be eating the cake and drinking the wine 🙂
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I will join you for some cake and wine! 🙂
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I do love your random ramblings…this is exactly what it’s like to be in my head on a long run! What marathon are you considering? I am pretty sure that I’m done with that distance. The training is just daunting at this point in my life.
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I am actually doing 2 marathons – Tunnel of Light in Washington state in August and Marine Corps in October. I have a friend who keeps asking me to sign up. Darn peer pressure! 🙂
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Time is what we are given. What a lovely and profound thought. I know its wrong but I often run on trails alone. I find the solitude irresistible. And they’re mostly flat enough that my mine can wander and ponder.
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Wish I could find trails like that around here in “Rocksylvania”!
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I often wonder if I will ever run another marathon!
I have grown to love running trails, like really wooded trails and I’ve found myself taking my earbuds out when I run here. Listening to the sounds of nature are so much more calming than listening to music! Plus it lets me be alone with my own thoughts, which sometimes get turned into blog posts!
Good luck with your training.
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I agree. I love running trails too. Just can’t seem to give up marathons! 🙂
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Good luck on your training. Ill take the cake, but leave you the wine.
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Sounds good! 🙂
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As always, I love your thoughts and they way you analyse them! Trail running is really special – I find I don’t even think of distance when I am on the trail. “Time” – a beautiful gift indeed.
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Thank you so much for your comments. I love trail running too. so peaceful! 🙂
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Love, love this! This moment is holy! I think so many times I lose sight of that. That makes me sad! Thank you for the reminder!
Thanks for linking up @LiveLifeWell!
Blessings,
Amy
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I need constant reminders too. Thank you for the opportunity to link up! 🙂
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Hmm. I usually do listen to music while I run, so I don’t end up thinking about politics. Maybe I should wonder about holy things instead.
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Thinking about holy things is way more uplifting than politics! 🙂
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I love all your “holy things” thoughts. I am not into political discourse, so those thoughts are usually few and far between for me LOL I have started doing my shorter runs (2-3 miles) without music, so my mind can wander and do its own thing. It’s kind of a refreshing experience 😉
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Thank you for the comment! I used to listen to music, but I found I like listening to my own thoughts better! 🙂
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I usually run alone and don’t listen to music…although sometimes I will listen to a podcast. The thoughts in my head are definitely entertaining enough to get me through a run!
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Me too! A podcast is appealing, though.
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Toasted coconut brownies! I know there were deeper musings but…😍
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My absolute favorite! 🙂
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This is so profound, Laurie! I love how you connected love and holibess. I’ve never thought of it thst way. I’m going to be thinking about this this week. And I love the story about your dad. A very special memory. Thanks for sharing! (Mom Gene link up).
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Thank you for the comment! I am thinking about my dad today. He has been gone for over 20 years! Hard for me to believe.
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Well, I’m glad I could read about him and his sweet love for you on Father’s Day! Hugs to you today as you remember him!
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LAURIE! I love this so much: “If time is what we are given, use the gift. Spend your time. Live your life. Drink the wine, kiss the babies, eat the cake, make some whoopee. It would be disrespectful not to. This moment is holy.”
Man, I will keep thinking on this for much longer than today 💕
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Thank you so much, Jamie.
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I don’t want to share the last toasted coconut brownie with anyone, although I will grudgingly let my kid and husband finish it if they must. 🙂
I struggle with running, yet I continue to do it, partially because it forces me to push myself physically but also because it forces me to confront myself mentally. It’s just you, the road and your own thoughts.
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It is the ultimate test of love to let someone have the last coconut brownie! Did I mention icing on the brownie? I must take a picture the next time I make them.
When I had toddlers at home, running became my salvation. It was the only time during the day (including bathroom time) when I could be alone!
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Good luck on your training. I’ll have the cake but will pass on the wine
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Thank you! Cake is good!!!
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Oief. Way to start my day with an opened heart. Thank you Laurie. The thought of “how did I deserve this love?” when I think of how much my parents love me is so big for me. It baffles me. I don’t understand it. I don’t understand what I did, or why I should ever deserve that love. Now having a niece, under a year old, has just began to show me how you can love someone so unconditionally, simply for just being there, for being who you are. Its extremely powerful. More powerful than I can often sit with.
” I want to be aware of my surroundings and my interior conversation is usually amusing enough to keep me entertained.” —> aha. Funny, but so true. I rarely put in ear phones when I go for a walk, or when I used to run. I don’t so much like the feeling of being disconnected to my surroundings.
Do you ever read anything by Anne Lammott??
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Thank you for the comment. I have never read anything by Anne Lamott, but after viewing her Amazon page, I can’t believe I never have. I am going to fix that today. Thanks for the question!
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I have a feeling you’d love her. I’ve read all her books (but not her fiction novels). You can’t go wrong with any of them.
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I ordered one for my e-reader and 1 paperback (along with some other books). I’m going to start the e-reader one tonight. Thanks for the cuggestion!
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That’s wonderful.. i don’t think I could do marathons.. I can’t even workout regularly.
I love when you say.. the conversations in your head are amusing enough to keep you entertained!!
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Thank you! If you are ready to workout at some pint, you will! 🙂
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If you are going to run… You must also enjoy the cake and wine! Love it!!! 🙂
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Thank you! I do enjoy wine and cake! 🙂
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What an insightful post, Laurie! I love those quotes and your incredible insight. Maybe I ought to take up marathon training. 🙂 Glad I stopped by here today. Blessings on your training.
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Thank you so much for your comment, Carlie. Marathon training has afforded me so many valuable insights. It’s when I get my best thinking done!
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Thank you for this reminder, Laurie. Since we’ve been blessed with time, we must show our gratitude by using it well. Blessings to you.
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Yes! Wonderful way to put it. Thank you for your comment, boma.
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I really enjoyed visiting today! I’m a writer and a runner and a cake-eater as well! If not for a bad knee, running would probably be one of the biggest parts of my life, but I do get out there for a ten-miler every weekend! These words were wonderful!
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Thank you so much for your comment. If you are getting out there every weekend for a 10-miler, you are doing great!
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I enjoy seeing you point the different thought processes your mind takes doing different trainings. You don’t have to be a runner to experience this. Just find what allows your mind to process…explore…listen. I used to do a lot of trail running. It was my favorite. The scenery, the distraction of where to place your foot was like a game, and there was usually more shade. Thanks for sharing with us at #LiveLifeWell.
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Thank you for the comment. I agree completely, you don’t have to be a runner, you just have to still your mind. Thank you for the opportunity to share!
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Toasted coconut brownies? Now that sounds amazing.
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I will have to post the recipe and pictures sometime! 🙂
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Wow, we could totally run together. Each of us lost in our thoughts (until you said you talk non-stop). A lot of this is very relatable. My mind goes in similar directions when I go long (although it’s been a couple of years since I’ve had a long run – plantar fasciitis–and I thought it was finally gone over the past two months but it’s flaring again. For me, running = meditation and fortunately I have some very easy very empty wooded trails by my house. I don’t need to pay attention and I don’t see anyone. Sometimes I’ll realize that I have no idea where I am on my run and I’ll need to pass a landmark to determine if I’m almost done or I have a ways to go yet.
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Actually, I usually run by myself and it’s my meditation time too. It’s only when I run with a friend or my poor hubby that I talk a lot! 🙂 I saw from your website that you live in Gettysburg. I live near Lancaster!
So sorry to read about your plantar fasciitis. I dealt with that briefly years ago but got over it quickly. I ran a marathon on Sunday which made my hip injury flare up, so I am temporarily sidelined too. Ugh!
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Laurie, I so enjoyed this post. I am not a runner, never have been. But I love where your thoughts take you when you’re running. And your stream of consciousness “babble” made me smile. I have constant words drifting through my head when I walk and when I’m looking for beauty to snap photos of. 🙂
Your thoughts on living holy made me think. I so appreciate the perspective of moments being holy. I need to remember this the next Tim my day feels like it’s gone South. 🙂
I so enjoyed getting to know you a bit!
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Thank you for the comment, Jeanne. I think we each reach for holiness in our own way. For me, it was running; for you, it is looking for beauty in nature to take pictures of. It’s a way to shut off the interior monologue in our heads and let God speak to us. I am so glad you found my little corner of the internet!
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