When I saw that this month’s word was “dedication”, one picture came to mind:
Or maybe this one:
Or this:
Or….well, you get the picture.
This summer will be the 40th anniversary of our wedding for Bill and me. 40 years of wedded bliss! Well, maybe not every second. We have had our ups and downs like any couple who has accumulated a lot of years together, but when I think of dedication, I think of us.
It wasn’t always that way. It used to be that hubs liked to golf and I liked to run. We each kind of did our own thing. Oh, Bill ran a little bit. He did three or four miles a few times a week. We usually did not run together, and he never raced.
When our kids were younger, raising them was something we did together, but after all the kids left home, we kind of grew apart. We realized that we had to do something drastic to boost our relationship. I began to take golf lessons and Bill started to run with me. I lured him into a 5k by promising him free beer and pizza after the run. Unfortunately, his stomach was too shaky after his first race to enjoy the beer and pizza, but luckily, he kept running, because I was a terrible golfer.
5k’s became 5 milers, 10 milers, and half marathons. Then we saw the movie “The Spirit of the Marathon” together. Bill asked me if I would run a marathon with him. I said “Of course!“. He said “No, I mean every step of the way.” I again said “Of course“, and our running partnership began in earnest. We trained for and ran the Richmond marathon. Together. We both have an affinity for that city’s beautiful architecture, fabulous restaurants and lively running scene.
Running is now the centerpiece of many of our vacations. Within the last year, we have done everything from the Berlin (Germany) Marathon in September to a 24 hour relay in Danville, PA on Mother’s Day weekend.
Running a tough race with the person you love most in the world makes the miles easier and more fun. I realize how incredibly lucky I am. No one knows me better than Bill and vice versa. We know when to talk to each other to make the miles go by faster and when to shut up. I once even asked Bill to sing to me during a particularly tough patch. He started singing “Happy birthday to you…“, I cracked up, and the rough patch was over.
Thanks to Deb from Deb Runs for giving me the chance to think about dedication. When I think of dedication, I think about running. And Bill.
I am linking up with Deb Runs for her Wednesday Word and Eclectic Evelyn for her Words on Wednesday link up.
Wishing you both a very happy 40th!
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Thank you, Anita!
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I love this so much! You both put so much into keeping your marriage fresh and alive.
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Thank you. We have learned over the years…. 🙂
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oh wow 40 years!!! congratulations!!
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Thank you!
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40 years!!! Congrats. Speaking from a marriage where we have ran and trained a marathon (every step of the way) I can only look forward to our dedication continuing into its 40th year. Truly inspiration Laurie (currently 3 years marriage— 9 years total though, which I don’t think should be forgotten 😂🏃♂️🙌🏃♀️)
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I don’t think they should be forgotten either! Of course, my hubby and I were married when we were 8! 🙂
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Even more amazing! 🙌
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You are indeed lucky, and wise for knowing how lucky you are 🙂
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Congrats on your upcoming 40th wedding anniversary! August 1st will be 37 for Bill and me. Sadly, though, he had to stop running 3 years ago when his knee started acting up. Up until then he’d run 20 marathons with me. Now, I try to bike with him; although, I haven’t been on my bike all spring.
Thanks for linking up!
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Congrats to you two! Before Bill ran, he would ride his bike (usually on a rail trail) and I would do my long run. Thanks for the opportunity to link up!
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Hey Laurie,
I have nominated you and your blog for a Liebster Award:)
Rory
https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2018/06/07/liebster-award-nomination-9/
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Thank you! 🙂
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Pleasure Laurie 🙂
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Wow!! Happy 40th anniversary! We just celebrated our 16th. Time sure does fly by!
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Congrats on 16 years!
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